When helping a couple out of a crisis one focus that’s critical is learning if either person has a destructive pattern that’s likely to stop them from
“Understanding this changed his whole life” He lived this every day and never knew.
His life was falling apart. His relationship was over his business was on its knees nothing was working and he was not just depressed he suffering
“Resentment stacking and the true cost”
Resentment stacking has hidden problems that people only see when it’s too late. So in today's post I’m going to share what I see and where the danger
“10 reasons why couples don’t make it”
There are now well over 800 pages in this website helping any reader to become curious about their relationship why they work and why they fail.
What does a successful relationship really look like?
Over the years of working with couples in crisis, my mission has been to help couples in crisis learn if they have the ability to breakthrough their
What did she really teach her husband?
I sat with a lady and her husband who were struggling with their marriage. Her husband really didn’t feel they had a problem but she was very unhappy
Rebuilding trust after a two year affair “Last Chance Saloon” Part 2
Most people know what they think about affairs and what they would do if it happened to them. A consistent message I receive is the people whose
“Last Chance Saloon” Part 1 – Please help me get my wife back
Helping couples make the right decision about the rest of their lives is a huge responsibility I take very seriously. The future of their relationship
The easiest way to save your marriage and reignite passion
When couples come to me for help I must take them through some very specific and enlightening stages. These stages are designed to make it easy for
“What do you actually hear when I speak?” – Couples communication problems
One of the most fundamental challenges all couples face is understanding what the other is really saying to them. If you can’t understand each
Foundations of successful marriages
There is no question that a significant percentage of the population is struggling to understand how to keep their marriage alive because they are
“I lost myself in my marriage”
If you want to build a successful marriage you’ll need the courage to be who you really are with your husband or wife. NOT being your true self is a
