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Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger

Crisis Marriage Coach | Harley Street London

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What does a successful relationship really look like?

Over the years of working with couples in crisis, my mission has been to help couples in crisis learn if they have the ability to breakthrough their problems and really make their relationship work.

  • Couples who have split up and physically separated have discovered how to reconnect physically and emotionally.
  • Couples who have fallen foul of an affair learn how it happened and how to rebuild their relationship and trust in each other.
  • Couples who have lost passion for each other have discovered how their unique attraction is created, what kills it and how to keep it alive for life.

All these couples have learnt how to communicate, how to grow closer through conflict and how to build a compelling future together.

You see the objective is to take couples with little hope for a future together and help them build a compelling future one they can both look forward to.

Couples that are on the edge of divorce have lost vision that their future together is going to be better than it is today.

This is why divorce can become attractive for so many people who only see the future together as miserable or non-existent and leaving is their only option.

The problem I see is couples are not seeing early enough that making and keeping the future exciting is part of their initial attraction but they lost this critical energy and for some boredom, resentments, negativity can take over killing their future.

So my mission with every couple that has their breakthrough moment(s) is to help them create a vision so the future together is compelling again.

Successful relationships should not be hard work, if putting effort into a relationship is a chore then something is wrong.

Here is why…

  • A successful couple will do anything for each other.
  • Successful couples will have a great connection with themselves and are free to be who they are when they are with their partner.
  • Successful couples are able to really see each other, understand and feel naturally safe together.
  • Successful couples make it their mission to learn and meet their partners’ critical needs and they have understood how their partner is different from them and see this difference as a strength.
  • Successful partners will not make their relationship about them. In fact, successful couples have a far greater expectation of themselves than they do of their partner.
  • Successful couples are passionate and can disagree but know how to grow closer from their conflicts.
  • Successful couples know how to keep their passion for each other alive firstly by not needing to protect themselves from their partner. They use unconditional love and vulnerability as a means to create true security and depth of connection.

This BTW is the reverse of how most people think. and is the root of so many problems. You simply can’t love someone you have to protect yourself from. Many people are protecting themselves from partners that really do love them but don’t yet know how to show it effectively.

  • Successful couples are on the same page about their future together and where they are going. In fact, the most successful couples will plan their future and design the relationship they both really want.
  • Successful couples have understood that being a valuable partner is about learning new skills and learning to understand your partners’ world so you can connect with them there.

So many people are genuinely loved but by a partner that has no clue of how to connect to their partners’ world so the connection is too weak and the couple will struggle to keep the passion alive.

There is no question that relationship building is a skill and that once mastered makes couples lives so much easier.

The way I see it is men and women are not really meant to live in a box together. There is very little natural understanding between men and women so learning your partners’ world is critical if being together passionately for life is your goal.

This year many people in crisis right now are going to be applying to learn these critical life skills to keep their family together.

May 2019 be your year.

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About Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger is known as the most sought after marriage in crisis specialist in the UK. He is famous for consistently and naturally saving many marriages from divorce. He is a favourite of business leaders, business owners, Judges and celebrities.

Stephen runs his meetings from his office in Harley Street London and supports his global clients over Zoom.

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A 30 minute call with Stephen

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

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Chipo

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Client responds to testimonial

November 11, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

I’m working with this lady, and during the session, she wanted to comment on a testimonial another client had left. As you go through today post, you will see what she wanted to say. Before you get to her words, I want to set the context. I’m not quoting her word for word here, but […]

“I was in tears…” 

October 20, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

‘Initially I went to Stephen with a sole focus on saving my marriage as my husband wanted a divorce whilst I felt I could not let go of the 14 years’ relationship without giving it a second chance. My husband was determined to exit and refused to join the Marriage Breakthrough Programme with me, therefore […]

“Lawyer saves relationship alone”!

July 27, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

“I went to see Stephen when my relationship was at breaking point. The final trigger was my partner’s plan to sell his property and move in with me. We had until then a long-distance relationship and never spent more than about a month together (thanks to the COVID lockdown). I had finally moved to his […]

“It was like walking through a minefield blindfolded”

November 29, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

When relationships go wrong the pain can be unbelievable. Today’s post is about a couple whose relationship was quickly out of control and both people thought it was the end. When I first agreed to meet this couple she arrived first.  She was clearly very anxious, eyes darting, wringing hands, unsure if her husband would […]

One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”

May 10, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time? What is it that helps couples make it through all the ups and downs life has to throw at them? Is sex at the core for a […]

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Stephen Hedger offers married couples in crisis across the globe a comprehensive strategic roadmap to overcome their marriage problems. Today Stephen works with Celebrities, CEO’s, Lawyers, Bankers, Royalty, Judges, and business owners helping them transform their family and personal relationships with massive breakthroughs, seemingly against all odds.

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Recent Posts

  • “STOP making YOUR partners upset about YOU!”
  • “Never try to change your partner”
  • Retired couple in crisis “We should know better at our age!”
  • “He wants to leave the marriage”
  • Never make anything more important than your partner – Mini Post

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