Is your marriage over, have you had enough? Maybe you partner has expressed a need to leave. No matter what side of this fence you are on it’s a very stressful place to be.
Many people with marriage troubles tell me they think they married the wrong person.
Some couples love each other, but simply struggle to get along together suffering as their problems keep coming back.
Some people feel rejected, unloved and alone. Some are full of resentment so much so they now feel detached from their partner questioning their love.
They question the point of their relationship? Many are simply going through the motions looking forward to their temporary escapes such as work, nights out with friends, or another drink they know they shouldn’t have.
The love they used to crave from their partner now comes from their children, friends or family.
Sadly the journey most couples go on naturally creates significant challenges for their chances of happiness together.
The result is really lovely people end up doing the most awful things to each other without ever knowing.
This leads them to disaster where the end of their marriage feels like the only route to happiness.
The truth is many couples can be saved from divorce once they become aware of why their marriage has really fallen over.
Many couples are so shocked at how little they really understand about their marriage. What they thought were their problems turned out to be totally different to what they thought, which is why they went round in circles.
Couples learn that male logic and female logic are poles apart and so interaction leads them to confusion and resentments.
One gentleman broke down in tears in a couples session when he realised how and why his actions had affected his wife so badly.
Another couple were stunned at how many assumptions they had both made about each others actions which were totally wrong and had nearly resulted in breaking up their family.
Couples who had lost attraction and intimacy learned how their individual behaviours made this a reality.
They both had no idea how their actions were actually leading them to divorce.
If you are thinking about leaving your marriage, or your partner has threatened to leave it’s important to discover the truth so any decision you, or your partner makes will be for the good of all.
Discover the truth in your marriage call us today on 0845 519 4808