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Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger

Crisis Marriage Coach | Harley Street London

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“Just tell me what to do – I’m in a broken marriage?”

A person in a marital crisis is going to be looking for answers to stop their pain and get out of their suffering. Do I stay do I go? Do I fight for my marriage, or do I start again and what about the children?

I deal with some of the most severe cases of marital crisis right on the edge of divorce.

What these people are looking for is certainly – they want to know what to do?

I set my practice up NOT to blindly fix couples problems but to give the couple the knowledge and the tools to understand the crisis they are in and gain the skills to understand what it takes to rebuild trust and repair the damage for good.

This empowers two intelligent people to make the right decision with the rest of their lives. For most, it’s to stay together and for some parting is the right decision. 

In most cases, a couple’s crisis comes from a significant misunderstanding of why they are in crisis or what to do about it and have for years been making their problems worse without knowing.

Some people have married for the wrong reasons but be aware people who have been suffering do have a tendency to rewrite history to fit their current state of mind so despite their historic messages of love and commitment they will swear they always had doubts.

Some people have genuinely lived a great marriage unaware why they are successful until a shift of circumstances shifts their dynamic with devastating consequences. This could be a new baby, selling a business retirement or kids leaving home to name a few.

Some people are instantly devastated through a break of trusts such as infidelity, emotional affairs or addictions.

Couples that are looking for help need to know if they have the ability to CREATE a dynamic that’s a win-win for both people.

I use the word “CREATE” because couples in so many cases have created their own broken dynamic, so they need empowering with the right knowledge to RECREATE a relationship they can understand and sustain.

The couples that follow exactly what I ask them to do are CREATING lasting connections and reporting back to me their marriages are significantly better than they have ever been.

This is because the changes they have made are natural and easy to achieve.

The key to helping couples out of a crisis is through TWO key parts.

ONE: Help them understand their crisis so they can both take responsibility and rebuild trust.

TWO: Give them the tools to ensure they never break it again whilst keeping their connection and passion alive for life.

By enlightening them with these two critical parts, it helps them to understand how to sustain a marriage that is a place to give the best of who they really are to someone so love can thrive again.

The point of being married is to enhance emotions such as love, connection, belonging, passion, freedom to name a few.

Most couples are suffering through a total lack of understanding of their roles how to hear each other how to support each other and add value in the way that makes them a team.

So when a couple says we have been struggling for years and we are sceptical that we can make it.

My answer is simple “spend a little bit of time learning if you both have the ability to build a dynamic that makes sense to both of you – BUT this time with the right information”.

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Stephen Hedger
Stephen Hedger
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Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach

With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.

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Latest posts by Stephen Hedger (see all)
  • All successful people have done this to save their marriage and avoid an almost certain divorce! - May 30, 2020
  • 10 Steps for Divorce Prevention - May 25, 2020
  • Marriage Breakthrough – “Why did they change their minds?” - May 23, 2020

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I’m not going to ask you how you “feel", pay me to watch you argue, or try to find the person to blame.

I am looking to discover if the couple can become a team, overcome their problems together and create a dynamic that will create a loving and passionate life together.

My approach is to take you from where you are, to where you want to be… fast!

I can not recommend Stephen highly enough – he not only saved our marriage, but has improved my marriage and myself as a person.

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A 30 minute call with Stephen

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Olivia

Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

Kind regards

Chipo

Success Stories

From Battlefield to Breakthrough: How to Save Your Marriage Without a Toxic Fight.

January 31, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Most people who come to me for help believe their marriage is broken, so their level of hope is not high. Many will have tried to fix the problems without success. These people are unaware that there is a critical mindset shift: if you don’t make it, your chances of success dramatically drop. As you […]

“By changing yourself, you can change a relationship… because I did!”

September 16, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

We were in the process of physical separation, with my husband arranging to move out at the end of the month, and I was getting legal advice on proceeding with the divorce.  On one of those distressed and sleepless nights, I came across Stephen’s website and his blog. I was fascinated. What Stephen has written […]

“There’s no hope in hell – I want a divorce!”

April 22, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

So what do you do when the trust is broken so badly that their relationship ends with them selling their family home and moving into separate homes? Most people would consider this the end, but this gentleman decided something different. He wrote to me to see if I could help. I wanted to encourage his […]

Marriage Crisis from Infidelity & Communication Breakdown

August 21, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is about a professional couple in the UK who decided they wanted to share their experience of their tailormade program that was designed to help them out of their marital challenges. They were in crisis due to communication breakdown and infidelity. They had 12 meetings over five months to learn how to reconnect […]

His Marriage was Over!

June 5, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

This man was in the depths of sadness; his marriage was over, but he didn’t want it to be. They had seen numerous counsellors who had all concluded the marriage was indeed over. He had lost all feelings for his wife. Due to being so stuck for so long, he had started an affair. But […]

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