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Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger

Crisis Marriage Coach | Harley Street London

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Want to change how you FEEL then change the story

A simple shift of thought changed their whole life direction.

One gentleman came to me with a worry that was affecting his thoughts and his sleep. He had spent 4 months winning his partner back after she left him. 

When she left him she met someone new and this really affected him.

With my help, he got her back, but he was now insecure about her, the future and other men.

He was now living a disempowering story of loss and that he might not be enough for her.

If he was left with this story he would have been in danger of losing her again as this story would have weakened him making him too needy for her.

What he needed was an empowering story that would change his perspective and how he felt about himself and her.

I told him he was missing the point of his whole journey with her.

Your new story is this:

“YOU GOT THE GIRL!!!”

“She was free to choose any man and she still chose you!!!”

This shift in perspective totally changed how he felt about himself and how he felt about her.

The stories we tell ourselves have a powerful effect on our emotions and the outcomes of our lives.

Are you living the wrong story in your marriage?

One lady was convinced of her story she has married an unloving man with no empathy.

The truth was her husband was simply not connected to what she needed and he never would have been naturally.

She never told him because she thought he should just know and because of this, she was consistently negative with him which helped him give up with her and focus on his work.

Her old story was shutting down their relationship.

Her new story changed to – My husband isn’t a mind reader and I can now help him to become successful with me – my husband is now able and is choosing to be loving and caring in the way I need it.

Her small shift in perspective changed her story and how she felt about herself and how she saw him.

Many people suffer in their marriage so they create an incompatibility story.

So the story we are incompatible is a dead-end story, or is the true story we are just so bored with our lack of connection and lack of understanding?

One story will lead us to divorce the other will lead us to learning, understanding and possible reconnection.

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Hi, I'm Stephen Hedger. I'm determined to help couples discover what their marriage is capable of with the right information. My only question is, will it be yours?

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About Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger is known as the most sought after marriage in crisis specialist in the UK. He is famous for consistently and naturally saving many marriages from divorce. He is a favourite of business leaders, business owners, Judges and celebrities.

Stephen runs his meetings from his office in Harley Street London and supports his global clients over Zoom.

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A 30 minute call with Stephen

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
Many thanks
Olivia

Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

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Chipo

Success Stories

“It was like walking through a minefield blindfolded”

November 29, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

When relationships go wrong the pain can be unbelievable. Today’s post is about a couple whose relationship was quickly out of control and both people thought it was the end. When I first agreed to meet this couple she arrived first.  She was clearly very anxious, eyes darting, wringing hands, unsure if her husband would […]

One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”

May 10, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time? What is it that helps couples make it through all the ups and downs life has to throw at them? Is sex at the core for a […]

Please Save Our Marriage! – Testimonial

March 1, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

Please Save Our Marriage! This was the first email I recieved from Darren and Sue, they were at breaking point. When they first entered my clinic you could cut the atmosphere with a knife. This was a couple with young children on the edge, breaking up seemed like the only option open to them… Sue […]

“He thought his life was over..!”

March 1, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is a little different. I wanted to share with you a clients words about his experience of the pain of his divorce and the process of rebuilding him and his future. Over to him… The words hit me like a hammer ~ “There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken, you never were. […]

“His emotions were sabotaging what he really wanted…”

November 3, 2019 By Stephen Hedger

What you are about to read is about is a gentleman in turmoil. He thought he had lost the girl he loved and his one-year-old son. She had left him and this connected him to his core fears, emotions that were powerful enough to sabotage him from getting the very thing he wanted. As his […]

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Hi, I'm Stephen Hedger. I'm determined to help couples discover what their marriage is capable of with the right information. My only question is, will it be yours?

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Stephen Hedger is known as the most sought after marriage in crisis specialist in the UK. He is famous for saving marriages from divorce through his tailored Marriage Breakthrough Program.


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Stephen Hedger offers married couples in crisis across the globe a comprehensive strategic roadmap to overcome their marriage problems. Today Stephen works with Celebrities, CEO’s, Lawyers, Bankers, Royalty, Judges, and business owners helping them transform their family and personal relationships with massive breakthroughs, seemingly against all odds.

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Recent Posts

  • “It’s like watching two kids squabbling”
  • A thought for Sunday
  • An Intimacy Conundrum
  • The cost of NOT hearing a cry for help
  • Triggered?

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