What she wanted is for him to learn about her, to care about her and help her to feel that she was number one in his life. She wanted to feel that if he touched her it was because he wanted to get to know her and not that he just want to get something for himself.
She wanted with all her heart for him to help her feel safe and that just being her was enough for him.
She wanted him to look into her eyes and help her to know he would be there forever no matter what happens.
She wanted him to look beyond her words and connect to her feelings and see what she was really feeling.
She wanted him to grow into the man she believed he could be. She wanted to help him become that man and help him become the man he had always wanted to be.
What she hoped for she lost.
With a six month old child she lost hope that he would ever understand her and so she left him, she felt she had done all she could and wouldn’t take the one step that could have saved her family and prevented her son going through a pain she was unaware of.
You see he did love her. Now devastated he is now rebuilding his life without his son and without the wife he did love. He didn’t know how to show her love it in a way she could connect to, he wanted to fix it, but he took action too late. He waited until she thought she had enough proof they were incompatible to ask for a divorce before he sought help.
So now another family is broken, not because they were incompatible, because they didn’t know what to do to keep their marriage alive.
All they had to do was put importance into learning how to connect to each other. Men aren’t emotionally dead, they’re just not female.
He doesn’t understand her, but it doesn’t mean he can’t learn. She doesn’t understand him, but she also could learn too.
Couples spend years trying to get through to each other, but they keep trying the same things and they keep getting the same results.
This is not proof the marriage is wrong, it’s proof that what you’re doing doesn’t work.
Marriages don’t just magically happen, they are created and to build something magnificent together you need to learn the skills that will help you create a future that has secure foundations and a lasting love and passion for each other.
In just a few hours you can both learn what it takes to build a marriage that works, or you can wait and spend weeks on a knifes edge learning fast because your life depends on it.
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