If you are looking to get concrete answers to your relationship problems and put an end to your fears and worries within a few weeks then this is for you.
In 2013 our programs have helped 95% of clients rebuild a relationship they feared was dead. They learnt how to bring it back to life step-by-step. Some say their relationship has never been this good, yet they started the process thinking it was all over.
What’s unique about our programs is it’s designed specifically for the couple and their specific challenges.
This is a powerfully strategic approach to relationship building, where the couple will learn what it really takes to create a relationship that works based on their specific situation and individual needs.
The goal of our programs is to help the couples discover if they can naturally create a dynamic between them which allows them both to be all who they really are with each other.
This means we have two people naturally and happily contributing to the relationship and their future together as a team. Lasting changes will only happen if the couple learn to become more of who they really are. This is because our happiness is attached to our identity and marriage problems can help us change so we lose who we are.
For this to be achieved the couple need to go through key steps that are most likely to safely give them the answers they need.
The steps for every couple are different. This is because the individuals in the relationship are unique and the relationship they have created is also totally unique and so this needs to be understood and respected if we are to give them clear answers.
To create the key steps we need to learn where the couple really is today and the outcome they would like. This creates the framework to design the steps needed to achieve their chosen goal.
The couples are then profiled so we can understand their individual needs, values and strengths. This is important because both people on their journey must work to their core strengths when supporting each other.
Learning and understanding about each others differences is critical if the couple are to become leaders of their relationship and family. Remember your children are learning how relationships work from you.
On this journey the couple will learn learn about core milestones that have enable the collapse of their relationship so when problems in the future do strike they both know what to do to repair it fast.
They will also learn how to maintain the relationship day-to-day and plan for success in the future.
What typically happens to a couple in crisis
- Couples lose trust in their ability to create a future which is happy or they way they want it to be.
- The couple will also be struggling to meet each others critical needs.
- The couple will be struggling to communicate so understanding will be low.
- This will create a feelings that your partner doesn’t care, or if they do it’s not in the way you need.
All this combined will naturally create fears and over time will help you both feel that you have lost a sense of who you are. This can lead some to depressive states, loss of confidence, loss of self-esteem and some will have a need to detach emotionally to cope and others will have a desire to leave.
Couples will normally feel that their problems are impossible to solve, or their partner can never make them happy.
Both people will usually agree at this point that where they are today doesn’t work.
So the goal is simple
Discover if the couple have the ability to become a team so day-to-day they are both feeling what they want to feel whilst working towards a future that compelling.
About Stephen Hedger
