One of the most important elements in rebuilding a relationship is getting to the truth. Many couples circle their real problems with the hope of either protecting the relationship, themselves or both. Some couples are not aware of what the truth is, some individuals have a totally different idea of the truth from their partner.
Many individuals with real problems can re-write the truth to fit with their new objectives.
Getting the truth on the table is the key to solving any problem. You see when couples start to understand the real reason why they are having problems their reactions to each other can then change dramatically.
This is how I can work with couples who have been disconnected for years both sexually and emotionally and help them reconnect with the right information – THE TRUTH!
You see it’s very rare for one person to collapse a relationship on their own. It takes two people to create a dynamic that works and two to create one that fails.
So if you have a relationship problem please expect you to be part of that problem, even if that was never your intention.
Most couples don’t set out to hurt each other, but through a severe lack of understanding they can hurt each other without realising.
You see if our partners can’t understand why we behave the way we do they lose trust in us.
One example is when a person says they love their partner then take actions which seem to be unloving.
This simple process leads to a loss of trust which starts the break down of the foundations in the relationship. This leads to something, or someone else becoming this persons source of love.
Now for this person the outside world is starting meeting his or her needs and the relationship is starting to lose it’s power and it’s value.
Understanding this is the key to any couples success. So the question is what do you both have to do to put you back on to a path that is not just secure and loving, but is the way it should be for you both?
When you have this answer that’s when you can both really start your life together again.