Yesterday we looked at how men can meet a womans basic needs, today we are going to discover how a woman can meet a man needs in a relationship.
I must stress that everyone is different and this is just a start, but on the whole if you can make a start in this direction you will be making good progress.
Meeting a Mans Basic Needs
- A man needs to know her love for him is unconditional, he needs to know that he is loved whatever mood he is in. The love you give him needs to be like the love of a child, so that even if he has done something wrong he still feels that love from her.
- Men love to be surprised in the ways you show your love and especially if you do this sexually. If a man knows you are planning a sexual adventure for him and you feel free enough with him to show your darker side he will feel great inside and attach that great feeling to you. (… I saw the humor too :-)).
- He needs to feel he is important as a man in the relationship. Discover ways to help him feel that his masculine presence is important to you in the relationship. Let him know that he does good job as a partner, provider, father he needs to know he is pleasing you. (CRITICAL)
- Discover what he needs that equals love to him, and then give that love. It could be your smiling face, a regular touch especially in public, it could be making his favorite meal, or of course planning sex.
- If she then commits to meeting all his needs above whilst showing a desire to give more to him and working with him towards their chosen goal.
- If she like him commits to meeting his needs in the way that feel important to him without trading for something in return and both people are doing this. A trusting passionate relationship starts to grow.
You see if you can trust your partner to give you want you need in the way you want it, you would never have a need to go elsewhere to feel good again.
If you feel that you cannot, or don’t want to give to him in the way he needs, the question is why? Of course I will be delighted to help.
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