I’m introducing a new category into this blog. It’s called “Stop and Never” Mini Post Series which should be under 200 words – I’ll try…
In contrast to my usual longer weekly posts, I wanted to create an outlet to give my readers clarity through a Mini-post on topics that devastate relationships without the person knowing/meaning to.
The first post in this series is…
“Never Threaten The End of the Relationship!”
The hidden problem with this message is what the receiving mind does with these words, and they don’t have control over this.
The receiving person will feel threatened, and instinct will move the person’s mind to protect itself.
Sleep then solidifies this position.
What this creates is a vision of what they have to do to be on their own, and they may become comfortable with it.
This makes it real in their mind, and that’s a terrible idea as it’s corrosive to connection and investment.
So if you don’t mean it or are saying it for effect, you may just be creating a significant problem for yourself.
When a person hears it too often, they can become emotionally numb, and that numbness can include their feelings for their partner.
Their love for their partner can die, and it’s a real headache getting it back, so NEVER do this, and if you are doing this for your own sake, please STOP.