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Crisis Marriage Coach | Harley Street London

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Not all danger comes with a warning!

The hidden challenges that sit within relationships and their ability to be married for life is significant.

I have spent the best part of two decades helping couples understand their crisis, learn the strategy that will give them the best chance to discover what is possible for them.

I can see with total clarity that no one knows what they are getting into when they marry, so they are poorly armed to deal with the inevitable challenges that I see couples experience every day.

When you consider the massive cost of getting this part of your life wrong on every level, shouldn’t marriages come with a warning?

Imagine a couple getting married in their 20’s. Will they be the same people in their 60’s?

You see, what attracted them and what connected them in their 20’s might change in their 30’s, 40’s or 50’s.

Changing with age is just one problem.

Imagine a couple trying to be married for life yet can’t understand each other especially when it goes wrong which it will, because every couple has problems.

Couples have no idea the challenge they are taking on when they decide to commit their whole life to another person. It’s a huge responsibility, and everyone feels qualified to get it right.

  • Do you know what drives your partner?
  • Do you know what creates attraction?
  • Do you know what your partner needs and why?
  • Do you know how to deal with conflict so there is more security and more love?

These are just a few of the critical elements couples must know to stay connected.

Ordinary lovely people don’t know this and are just getting on with their lives doing their best, but can find they are suffering impossible conflicts that go round in circles.

They can suffer from a loss of intimacy and don’t know why.

Loss of trust, loss of love these are all complex to understand and to fix.

I remember a gentleman married for 20 years came in for help; his wife wanted a divorce, but he had no idea why; she never said a word about being unhappy.

One lady was totally confused when her husband just gave up and told her he was leaving – no reason just left.

Of course, every case I see has a root problem, and if the couple had understood their dynamic, many could have avoided the path they were on.

One couple came for help; the husband had an affair, which resulted in a child. The affair failed, marriage was repaired; now, the affair child visits the couple every other weekend.

All these problems because the couple didn’t understand what they were doing or how to correct it.

People don’t make understanding their marriage a priority, and most will end up in some kind of trouble they won’t know how to solve.

Some can live passionless for years.

Many live disconnected from who they really are in the marriage, only becoming themselves when they are not with their partner.

Marriages should come with a health warning.

People are unskilled at being married, but they are unaware of the risks without having critical skills.

  • Risk for their own health
  • Risk for their financial health
  • Risk for their children’s wellbeing

We all know unskilled people tend to struggle with a task where skills are required.

Without a doubt, relationships are complex, and managing them is challenging if you don’t know what you are doing.

Most people are so blind that they don’t know what they are doing is destructive until their partner says, “I want a divorce”!

Then they wake up to their reality they don’t know how to fix it and when they try it only gets worse.

The skill of relationship building is in about how to make the complex simple.

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Stephen Hedger
Stephen Hedger
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Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach

With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.

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  • “What Do You Hear When I Speak?” - July 5, 2025
  • Your Marriage Isn’t Broken — The Pattern Is. Here’s How to Fix It. - July 2, 2025
  • The 5C Marriage Blueprint: The Foundation Every Relationship Needs to Thrive - July 1, 2025

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I’m not going to ask you how you “feel", pay me to watch you argue, or try to find the person to blame.

I am looking to discover if the couple can become a team, overcome their problems together and create a dynamic that will create a loving and passionate life together.

My approach is to take you from where you are, to where you want to be… fast!

I can not recommend Stephen highly enough – he not only saved our marriage, but has improved my marriage and myself as a person.

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A 30 minute call with Stephen

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

Kind regards

Chipo

Success Stories

From Battlefield to Breakthrough: How to Save Your Marriage Without a Toxic Fight.

January 31, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Most people who come to me for help believe their marriage is broken, so their level of hope is not high. Many will have tried to fix the problems without success. These people are unaware that there is a critical mindset shift: if you don’t make it, your chances of success dramatically drop. As you […]

“By changing yourself, you can change a relationship… because I did!”

September 16, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

We were in the process of physical separation, with my husband arranging to move out at the end of the month, and I was getting legal advice on proceeding with the divorce.  On one of those distressed and sleepless nights, I came across Stephen’s website and his blog. I was fascinated. What Stephen has written […]

“There’s no hope in hell – I want a divorce!”

April 22, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

So what do you do when the trust is broken so badly that their relationship ends with them selling their family home and moving into separate homes? Most people would consider this the end, but this gentleman decided something different. He wrote to me to see if I could help. I wanted to encourage his […]

Marriage Crisis from Infidelity & Communication Breakdown

August 21, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is about a professional couple in the UK who decided they wanted to share their experience of their tailormade program that was designed to help them out of their marital challenges. They were in crisis due to communication breakdown and infidelity. They had 12 meetings over five months to learn how to reconnect […]

His Marriage was Over!

June 5, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

This man was in the depths of sadness; his marriage was over, but he didn’t want it to be. They had seen numerous counsellors who had all concluded the marriage was indeed over. He had lost all feelings for his wife. Due to being so stuck for so long, he had started an affair. But […]

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  • “What Do You Hear When I Speak?”
  • Your Marriage Isn’t Broken — The Pattern Is. Here’s How to Fix It.
  • The 5C Marriage Blueprint: The Foundation Every Relationship Needs to Thrive
  • The Silent Killer of Marriages: When You Stop Being You
  • Emotional Intimacy in Marriage: The Key to Trust, Connection, and Lasting Passion

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