This lady was very stuck, so stuck her own fears were stopping her fighting to see her own children. Now years had passed and her fear had grown.
To help her I knew I had to help her see her problem differently, in a way which would dissolve her fears and put her back in control of what she could control – her own actions!
After years she has now made contact with her daughter, a wonderful gift at the start of 2012
These are her words….
Life Coaching with Stephen Hedger:
Testimonial from an Anonymous Mother in a Foreign Land
How do I express the extent and depth of Stephen’s capabilities in assisting with the reversal of destroyed relationships?
I’m not talking about marriage in this case. I’m talking about myself as a mother agonizing for years over the estrangement of my young-adult children. Fear had me paralyzed. Lack of insight and wisdom had me continually groping while remaining hopeless and buried in on-going anguish.
When Stephen started working with me recently, he began by asking simple yet telling questions that, answered thoroughly and honestly, would probe the depths of my pain and shame. I decided to answer thoroughly and honestly.
Stephen went right to work. He delved into letting me know what life has been like for my children, what goes on in their minds, what is at stake and how I need to respond. I have wondered more than once if he’s psychic. Uncanny.
This relationship work is hard. It takes so much courage. But it is no longer impossible and hopeless. There is ground being gained and the first signs of hope and relief have appeared. I still walk in fear, yet it is being steadily replaced with determination and empowerment and positive, effective thinking and action.
For the first time I believe strongly that I will get my children back, that they will eventually be healed and whole.
Thank you, Stephen, for going through the fire with me and holding my hand throughout. It takes so much fortitude, courage, vision and generosity of spirit to do what you do. You are saving lives by diving in where it is most dark and dreary and then somehow bringing forth light, strength and belief.
You bring smokescreens to the surface and expose them for what they are. You get to the heart of the pain and provide a platform from which to work. I now have the attitude that I will get my children back or die trying.
All our lives depend on it.