When couples share their stories of working with other professionals with me I am always struggling to hear through their approach, where is the critical breakthrough that will enable that couple to experience a new truth in their marriage?
This particular couple came because they were getting nowhere and needed a fresh and constructive approach.
It’s key to enable a shift in a couple the couple breakthrough their own fears, their limiting beliefs, their old patterns of how marriages should work so they can start to feel free to be themselves in their own marriage.
When a couple is challenged on all aspects of their marriage from a perspective of genuine care for a safe outcome, that couple will find through key strategic shifts new ways to see their marriage totally differently.
These shifts of understanding enables a new and much stronger foundation which they can use to grow a stronger and more exciting life and marriage together.
What this couple had in buckets was courage. Courage to discover their truth, their possibility and how they could show up in their marriage in a way that reflected the best of them and brought that energy to supporting each other.
This helped them see the true potential through a new and more powerful connection and so their future instantly looked exciting and purposeful.
So for this couple gone are the day of escape patterns, self protection and a negative focus.
These are her words kindly given to help you see that even when it feels like its the end there is still away forward if you’re brave enough.
We initially tried traditional counselling and didn’t get anywhere, things were really bad at home and I moved out. As far as I could see there was no other way and I honestly thought it was the end.
Stephen’s website came up on a search online and it seemed to offer a different approach to any other therapy we had looked into.
He had a number of very good testimonials and it seemed he had helped a lot of people.
My husband was not so keen and it was a few months before he agreed to seeing Stephen.
Right from the start Stephen understood exactly where we were, he identified issues and just immediately got the bigger picture, he was just so different from any of the other councillors we had seen.
His sessions really made me open my eyes.
After completing Stephens program I have moved back in, we are in a much better place, we understand each other a lot more and I cannot tank Stephen enough for that.