My belief is within every person there is an amazing person screaming to get out and you are no exception. You have the ability to have and create the life you really want.
If there are people out there that have what you want, all that’s happened is they have used their time differently to you. Successful people generally use their 24 hours very differently to those that are not.
- Just so we are clear success = chosen goals + fulfilment.
Many people go for fame and money and then commit suicide, that’s because they were not fulfilled in their lives. Money doesn’t make people happy believe me. I meet unhappy yet very wealthy people every day.
The most common limitation to creating the life you want is if you believe you won’t or you can’t do it. This belief will be the persons biggest block and so without knowing they will make not getting their goals true.
Many people fear focusing on what they want because of the fear of not getting it, but think about this, they don’t have to fear not getting it because they are already there.
- Anyone on the start of their journey does not have – what they fear not getting.
It’s like couples that turn up to sessions fearing they will lose their relationship. They have not realised they lost the relationship years before and now they are friends at best. What they fear losing is the illusion of what they actually have.
So what we are now down to is the fear of putting in lot of effort and still not achieving their goal.
So as you can see we are back to a belief that it’s not possible.
The key to your success
The only way any goal can be realised is if the person has absolute certainty that they can make it happen.
Without this certainty the person will stay stuck.
So take some time to think what are your real thoughts about creating the life you want?
- What limitations do you discover, within you?
- What limitations have you discovered outside of you?
- Now think if I never achieved what I really want what will happen and how will I feel?
Remember you are amazing and you can do it! You just have to want it enough!
Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach
With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.
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