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“I went to see Stephen when my relationship was at breaking point.

The final trigger was my partner’s plan to sell his property and move in with me. We had until then a long-distance relationship and never spent more than about a month together (thanks to the COVID lockdown).

I had finally moved to his country where I was renovating the house I had bought some years ago and the plan had been for us to move there together after the renovation was completed.

But I was feeling afraid to commit and I had concerns if something were to go wrong. I was happy for us to spend more time together but him keeping his house was my backup plan.

Also, I felt at times disconnected from my partner and I was concerned that we were not a real match.

My partner showed no understanding for my feelings, and he therefore felt utter rejection and withdrew. We were unable to talk about the issues in a constructive way.

We had a few sessions with a therapist which had no impact at all. My partner and I completely stopped communication.

I had read Stephen’s blogs for a while and his messages resonated with me. I therefore reached out to Stephen for his help.

Stephen was very quickly able to see inside our situation and understand the dynamics between me and my partner.

He was able to show me insight into my behaviors and how they would impact my partner, even without hearing his perspective.

Much like in his blogs, Stephen provides advice and insights on the basis of real-life examples which I found extremely helpful.

Stephen talked me through a structured process of understanding my relationship values and rules, and how to use these to define my wants and needs and articulate the situations I want to avoid.

He explained the six critical needs that we all share and helped me prioritize them.

I then considered and scored how these needs were being met by my partner and how I thought that I met his critical needs.

Stephen further taught me how I can influence my partners emotional state and positive behavior, what he calls the “Relationship Superpower”.

Perhaps because I am a lawyer and like rational thinking, I found Stephen’s structured approach extremely effective.

It allowed me to gain clarity in my mind about what I need and expect in a relationship, and how my partner and I had supported each other in meeting these needs and expectations (and how we didn’t!).

This led me to conclude that I could not walk away from the relationship and wanted to find a means to make it work. I also articulated action points that would help me in any future relationship.

I then reached out to my partner and explained the work that I had done and my commitment to our future. There was never a question that we both still loved each other.

We have now reset our relationship, and we are both committed to rebuilding it on the basis of our deep love and the beautiful experiences we have shared in the past 5 years.

I am confident that with the tools I was given our relationship will get stronger and last our lifetime.

Thanks Stephen!”

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Stephen Hedger
Stephen Hedger
About the author:

Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach

With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.

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Latest posts by Stephen Hedger (see all)
  • What If You Knew the Exact Mistakes That Destroy Marriages? - July 8, 2025
  • “What Do You Hear When I Speak?” - July 5, 2025
  • Your Marriage Isn’t Broken — The Pattern Is. Here’s How to Fix It. - July 2, 2025

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I’m not going to ask you how you “feel", pay me to watch you argue, or try to find the person to blame.

I am looking to discover if the couple can become a team, overcome their problems together and create a dynamic that will create a loving and passionate life together.

My approach is to take you from where you are, to where you want to be… fast!

I can not recommend Stephen highly enough – he not only saved our marriage, but has improved my marriage and myself as a person.

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A 30 minute call with Stephen

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Olivia

Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

Kind regards

Chipo

Success Stories

From Battlefield to Breakthrough: How to Save Your Marriage Without a Toxic Fight.

January 31, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Most people who come to me for help believe their marriage is broken, so their level of hope is not high. Many will have tried to fix the problems without success. These people are unaware that there is a critical mindset shift: if you don’t make it, your chances of success dramatically drop. As you […]

“By changing yourself, you can change a relationship… because I did!”

September 16, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

We were in the process of physical separation, with my husband arranging to move out at the end of the month, and I was getting legal advice on proceeding with the divorce.  On one of those distressed and sleepless nights, I came across Stephen’s website and his blog. I was fascinated. What Stephen has written […]

“There’s no hope in hell – I want a divorce!”

April 22, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

So what do you do when the trust is broken so badly that their relationship ends with them selling their family home and moving into separate homes? Most people would consider this the end, but this gentleman decided something different. He wrote to me to see if I could help. I wanted to encourage his […]

Marriage Crisis from Infidelity & Communication Breakdown

August 21, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is about a professional couple in the UK who decided they wanted to share their experience of their tailormade program that was designed to help them out of their marital challenges. They were in crisis due to communication breakdown and infidelity. They had 12 meetings over five months to learn how to reconnect […]

His Marriage was Over!

June 5, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

This man was in the depths of sadness; his marriage was over, but he didn’t want it to be. They had seen numerous counsellors who had all concluded the marriage was indeed over. He had lost all feelings for his wife. Due to being so stuck for so long, he had started an affair. But […]

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  • “What Do You Hear When I Speak?”
  • Your Marriage Isn’t Broken — The Pattern Is. Here’s How to Fix It.
  • The 5C Marriage Blueprint: The Foundation Every Relationship Needs to Thrive
  • The Silent Killer of Marriages: When You Stop Being You

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