I was working with a couple, and the topic of motorbikes came up. This lady quickly commented that she wouldn’t let him have one! He sat sad and
You’ll need tools to save a marriage
Year after year, I’ve been studying the many hidden destructive patterns couples are using to take them into a marital crisis. I have studied this so
My partner doesn’t want to fix the marriage
One of the reasons couples in crisis struggle to reconnect is because they have not acted quick enough and are either now full of confusing and
28 Early warnings couples must never ignore
Life long, intimate relationships are packed full of hidden problems that can be catastrophic to the couples ability to stay connected. It's
Bored with your marriage?
One reason couples end up struggling with each other is that life together can become so dull, year after year of the same old everything. I see so
Can she really trust her feelings?
If someone is going to rely on their feelings to guide their life, wouldn’t it be important to understand how their feelings are actually
“The importance of challenging destructive thinking”
9 out of 10 couples would stop suffering with each other if they changed the way they think about their relationship and their problems. When a
Can a dead relationship be reignited?
The simple answer to this question is yes because I see it every day. Couples without knowing are creating a dynamic that is shutting down their
He was about to lose her!
So this gentleman came to me upset and confused. What has happened to my marriage? What’s made her so unhappy, and why is she now speaking about
“I love you – but I’m not in love with you…”
So many couples can find themselves in this situation. It’s shocking to hear this sentence, and it can cause panic. The key to this situation is to