Reactive couples in volume are leading each other into misery in their marriage. I spend my life helping couples to wake up to their reactive
37 Marriage Mistakes to Avoid
Below is a list of mistakes that can lead a marriage to disconnect. The list is in no particular order yet all are critical to understand if love and
Punishing our partners…
What are we all taught growing up? If we do something bad or something against the law, or against the rules, we will be punished. It starts
Why is being in love so hard?
The truth is that when done right being in love is the most rewarding place to be. Sadly many couples struggle to keep their love alive and they
The mirror of destruction pattern
Many couples are suffering from a mirroring pattern that disables their ability to grow together. The mirroring pattern happens when one person
People who are always trying to be right?
One group of people I bump into whilst helping couples out of their crisis are the ones that are hell-bent on being right. In fact being right for
My partner needs to change!
In their droves, people with marital problems come to me wanting me to change their partners' behaviors. In fact, many people come to me
The cost of NOT hearing a cry for help
What do you do when one person says the relationship is not working and they need help and the other says there is nothing wrong with it and they are
Triggered?
Out of control, emotional triggers can be at the root of so many couples ending their relationships. With a shift of understanding the couples