The Hidden Power of Going First Your partner says they’re done. They won’t go to therapy. They’ve shut down. And here you are—searching for
Breaking Out of Old Marital Conflicts
Many couples are suffering due to on-going patterns of circular conflicts that never end well. These types of situations are not just exhausting; they
One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”
What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time?
“The blame game – dealing with conflict”
One of the most common patterns couples get into is the blame and defend pattern. This is a pattern where one person is sharing their perspective
What Does A Healthy Relationship Look Like?
After spending significant time with so many struggling couples I can see that far too many people are not understanding what a healthy relationship
3 Steps to Emotionally Reset & Build the Life YOU want
Mark Twain — 'I've had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened.’ Many years ago I came across this quote and it had a profound
“Please don’t panic?”
Don’t panic is a message I give all my clients whilst I help them understand their crisis to the point they can make an intelligent decision about
“How does love die?”
So many couples are struggling to understand how the love they once shared has changed and they are now edging towards divorce. Many of these couples
7 Rules for a fun passionate successful marriage
The foundation of a successful relationship is based on each person committing to themselves to be the best of themselves especially when problems
So many men and women are needlessly suffering in their relationships…
Men and women are needlessly suffering in their relationships simply because they don’t know how to translate the other persons' words and
Is being married for life possible?
There are few certainties in this world, but many of us want the certainty of a marriage that will last forever. The challenge is if we strive for
“It’s a miracle!”
For her, it was a miracle. Six months earlier, her husband told her he needed to leave her. She and their daughters were totally devastated at his



