There are few certainties in this world, but many of us want the certainty of a marriage that will last forever. The challenge is if we strive for
“It’s a miracle!”
For her, it was a miracle. Six months earlier, her husband told her he needed to leave her. She and their daughters were totally devastated at his
“OMG we should have seen this coming years ago”
This is a common statement I hear from couples who are on the edge of divorce who have my words that describe the reason for their disconnect ringing
“Stop trying to fix your problems – you’re making them worse!’
This is a typical instruction I will give to couples who are on the edge of divorce and don't know what to do or think. Men and women are so
Couples are clueless and it’s not their fault
Divorce rates are showing us as a population are clueless about what needs to happen for us to keep our relationships alive. At the end of this post,
The most common problem leading couples to divorce!
I sit at the sharp end of marital crisis every day. I see first hand what everyone is doing that’s leading them to divorce. Far too many have no idea
What does a healthy relationship look like?
So many people are living in dysfunctional relationships and have no idea it’s unhealthy for them. So in today's post, I'm going to take you through
People that blame others for how they feel
No one has the ability to MAKE someone feel a certain way. Or put another way, no one can run into someone's brain and create a feeling for them. If
How Do You Know Your Relationship Is Over?
Some people are staying in broken relationships for far too long they spend years fearful to put their hand up and share they are genuinely
“The cost of always needing to being right in a marriage!”
Every couple that attends sessions with me are sharing very different perspectives about their relationship, and both people think their version is
“Emotionally unavailable partner”
I see many couples where one person has become emotionally unavailable in the relationship. The effects are incredibly damaging to the relationship as
“I was so embarrassed…”
One of the common traits of marriages that don’t last is when the couple stops being a team that’s creating a purposeful and exciting life