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Stephen Hedger

Crisis Marriage Coach | Harley Street London

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Client Testimonial – The True Him Wins!

When I came to Stephen I was in an awful state because I had separated from my partner and child. I knew we had made mistakes in this regard, but I could not get her back. I was calling her many times a day but all that did was make her want to avoid me.

When I approached Stephen I was trying to heal a broken relationship and I didn’t have the skills or experience to do it. I was trying to understand why things went wrong for me, and for us as a family. What Stephen did initially was he worked on improving my state, showing me change techniques. He pointed out that I had made crucial decisions in my life in a fear state, when I was in no fit state to make them.

His next item was to look at what we could change in myself. Together we listed my values, the things in life that are important to me. The key here is that by hitting my values in my actions I am making myself happy. His approach brought focus to my life that was lacking theretofore. I realized that one can be happy in life, no matter what one’s circumstances are.

I find my values evolve as I practice them. For instance, security was my top value when I started working with Stephen, on my latest values list it is down at number 15, and love is my top value.

Through our work I recognized that my actions were sometimes counter-productive to the kind of life I wanted to have (and person I wanted to be). They came from “split personalities” developed during times of my life when those traits helped me survive. In the present day they had me wanting to do one thing but doing another. I was able to identify and give up my unwanted personality traits. The key question that arises is “what kind of person do I need to be in order to be happy?”

Being coached by Stephen is like having a big brother, or a wise friend, who is experienced in relationships and psychology. He counselled me calmly when I felt distressed. He is available for a call or email, which was especially helpful when I was feeling down, confused or didn’t know what to do in a specific relationship situation. With this “hands-on” approach, he coaches me through events I find personally challenging alone.

Stephen is very good at focusing on blockages in my life and making me see them in a new light, until I find ways through them, giving a win-win solution. For example I realized that I did not need to do things I felt I ought to do because I had always done them that way, thus freeing me. And I realized my blueprint for a happy life could be changed and I would be no less happy.

I find his techniques practical and structured. He provides me with life coaching as well as relationship coaching, since they are intertwined. His approach takes me past what I think I want, to help me identify what I really want. In the end it calls for giving my partner unconditional love and giving her what she needs.

After counselling with Stephen I am well on my way to having a much better relationship with my partner and son and being a much happier, better focused human being.

Message from Stephen Hedger

When we discover the true versions of ourselves, our lives can change dramatically. This client has made a massive shift in just 8 weeks. He listened and practiced what he learnt and his result is clear. You too can create dramatic changes no matter what has happened. Remember is not the changing that takes the time, it’s the deciding when it’s safe to change is what holds you back.

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In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

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Success Stories

Marriage Crisis from Infidelity & Communication Breakdown

August 21, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is about a professional couple in the UK who decided they wanted to share their experience of their tailormade program that was designed to help them out of their marital challenges. They were in crisis due to communication breakdown and infidelity. They had 12 meetings over five months to learn how to reconnect […]

His marriage was over!

June 5, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

This man was in the depths of sadness, his marriage was over, but he didn’t want it to be. They had seen numerous counsellors who had all concluded the marriage was indeed over. He had lost all feelings for his wife. Due to being so stuck for so long, he had started an affair. But […]

Client responds to testimonial

November 11, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

I’m working with this lady, and during the session, she wanted to comment on a testimonial another client had left. As you go through today post, you will see what she wanted to say. Before you get to her words, I want to set the context. I’m not quoting her word for word here, but […]

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“I went to see Stephen when my relationship was at breaking point. The final trigger was my partner’s plan to sell his property and move in with me. We had until then a long-distance relationship and never spent more than about a month together (thanks to the COVID lockdown). I had finally moved to his […]

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