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Stephen Hedger

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Do you have a success philosophy?

A secure prosperous life is dependant on understanding this key to success in any area of your life… Please don’t ignore this because it’s critical to understand and at the end of this post I will share one of the key philosophies that lead my clients to success that you can start taking action on today.

Every day millions of people are spending significant time and money on what will make little difference in terms of gaining them the lives they really want. These people are not horrible trouble makers, they are really nice hard working people, but they have unchallenged life philosophies that will actually lead them to disaster. Worse is when individuals feel their philosophies are secure even though their life is screaming at them that something is wrong.

So lets look at some examples:

  • Many people are spending thousands each year on what they look like and very little on understanding their own mind and it’s battles. The key is education but for many it’s too hard to learn and so their entire life becomes hard as they struggle and cope.
  • Couples are spending thousands on getting married. They know there’s a 50% chance of getting divorced and yet they spend little to no money on making sure they are educated on what makes marriages last.
  • Millions spend their whole lives working hard and have forgotten to pay themselves. So they have no savings, no pension, no investments.
  • Individuals who smoke think it relaxes them, out of the 4000 chemicals a person inhales not one is designed to relax them. So they are suffering from a self created association to a relaxation illusion.
  • How overweight should you be when you’re middle aged? Yes you shouldn’t be.

These poor philosophies for life lead people into worry, stress, depression, poverty, early illnesses and loneliness.

You may for example look at my prices and say that I only deal with the rich and famous. This is not true, a large percentage of my clients have normal jobs and live normal lives.

The difference is my clients all have a unique success philosophy, they are focused not on the cost of the hour, but the value I will add to them in that hour. This philosophy is what will lead them to success.

You see a success philosophy is about how you think and the battle you will have with yourself. Does the way you think create the life you want?

You will know the answer by just looking around you. Are you living where you want to live? Do you have the relationship you really want? Do you have the wealth you should have? Are you the weight you should be?

If the answer is no then please start to question your philosophies. So what thinking has actually lead you to be in the place you don’t want to be?

All my clients no matter what help they come for will at some point be directed to look at who do they have to become to live the life they say they want. To expand on that, who do they have to become and how do they have to think to create the life they desire.

You see successful people are not lucky, or gifted they actually think differently and they do this because they have spent significant time getting educated in what’s important to them.

Many of my clients learn that the way they have been thinking about their relationship is the reason they are in trouble. When a person wakes up to the philosophies that actually create success only then are they truly free.

So lets start with a new philosophy you can think about today. If your relationship is not the way you want it to be then learn how you can change you? Many people with relationship problems are focused on changing their partner and their bad behaviours this philosophy never ever works.

If you become committed to learn how to become an amazing partner then you are doing all you can. The philosophy you must adopt is you don’t know how to do this and so you will commit to yourself to find out.

Many couples come to session with me telling me they have worked really hard on their relationship but their partner is selfish. What we discover is their actions do come from a good place, but are not what their partner really needed so their partner never felt, loved and important and this is why they were so unhappy.

The success philosophy for life is simple feed your mind with what will lead you to happiness starting today… Want help with this now call Cloe…

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