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Stephen Hedger

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How are successful relationships created?

To become successful at anything in life the key is to master it. To be better at sport we have to practice and practice, to be great at our jobs we have to study and get experience and prove our worth. The more we master our interests the better we become at them.

We all understand this concept, it gets drummed into us from our schools and from our parents.

One of my mentors spoke constantly about studying all aspects of life that were most interesting to me. He taught me to study the things we didn’t study in school, yet to me are the keys to life.

So I decided to study careers, wealth and relationships. I knew if any one of those areas was not working, my life would feel off balance.

My biggest passion was relationships. So I made relationships a study, not to become professional at the time it was just so I could master them for myself. You see In my twenties I was really struggling with understanding how relationships worked. What seemed a simple concept of boy meet girl and they fall in love was clearly far more complicated than I realised.

At 20 years old the proof was standing before me, the person who I was attracted to didn’t look so attractive with her screwed up face screaming at me for something else I did wrong in her eyes that made no sense to me.

I never knew you could study relationships and the idea seemed odd, but clearly necessary.

So study I did, but not just how relationships worked but how our minds react to our relationships and our lives.

The more I studied I could see how ridiculous the concept that a relationship should just work. I discovered that successful relationships are created, built and designed.

I could see that relationships consistently start to fail when the couple stop putting each other first.

I could see that understanding your partner needs was critical yet most people have no understanding of how to do that.

My studies led me to a revelation. The health of my relationship was dependant on me. There was little point me expecting my partner to be a great partner if I wasn’t either, I realised that I had to be the best I could be if I was to discover if my relationship was right or wrong for me.

However being the best I can be in a relationship is only valuable if you know how to understand, love and look after the person you say you care about.

I discovered that people in relationships and me included were totally misunderstanding each other. They were translating each others actions and words putting meanings to it that were totally untrue.

I discovered that many couples were doing this and thus destroying perfectly good relationships.

When I started to teach couples on how to look after each other, how to love each other and keep each other safe, I noticed that what worked consistently was the moment the person understood they could be successful this gave them the confidence to learn about their partner and give them what they really needed.

Having a life long passionate relationship is a constant study, you have to show up, you have to want to learn, you have to hold yourself to a higher standard.

Your relationship is valuable so please take action today to keep it secure.

If you would like more information on how Stephen Hedger can help your marriage / relationship please make contact today.

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In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

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Success Stories

Client responds to testimonial

November 11, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

I’m working with this lady, and during the session, she wanted to comment on a testimonial another client had left. As you go through today post, you will see what she wanted to say. Before you get to her words, I want to set the context. I’m not quoting her word for word here, but […]

“I was in tears…” 

October 20, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

‘Initially I went to Stephen with a sole focus on saving my marriage as my husband wanted a divorce whilst I felt I could not let go of the 14 years’ relationship without giving it a second chance. My husband was determined to exit and refused to join the Marriage Breakthrough Programme with me, therefore […]

“Lawyer saves relationship alone”!

July 27, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

“I went to see Stephen when my relationship was at breaking point. The final trigger was my partner’s plan to sell his property and move in with me. We had until then a long-distance relationship and never spent more than about a month together (thanks to the COVID lockdown). I had finally moved to his […]

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November 29, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

When relationships go wrong the pain can be unbelievable. Today’s post is about a couple whose relationship was quickly out of control and both people thought it was the end. When I first agreed to meet this couple she arrived first.  She was clearly very anxious, eyes darting, wringing hands, unsure if her husband would […]

One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”

May 10, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time? What is it that helps couples make it through all the ups and downs life has to throw at them? Is sex at the core for a […]

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