The most effective process for helping couples develop the skills to grow their relationship starts with their relationship with themselves. The couple are the foundations to the relationship and if the foundations are weak the relationship suffers.
You see if individual(s) are challenged by past events then that past will be used as one of their filters to make sense of their world. The meanings they give to their relationship will be based on that past combined with many other critical filters. Many people are not aware of these filters and how powerful they are.
Most individuals have some kind of misalignment without knowing. Society and parents teach people methods of how to destroy relationships without knowing. Individuals can come to sessions with no obvious past traumatic event, only to discover the way they experience the world is complex and unwinnable.
It is critical in the process of helping a couple heal their relationship with each other that they understand their relationship with themselves.
If their relationship with themselves is not good the foundations of the relationship as a couple will be weak and so growth will be really challenging because it is likely to be short lived because trust is a constant battle with each other.
A person can be personally challenged by these examples: Poor parenting, a traumatic event, bullying at school, depression, anxiety, stress, addictions, controlling to name a few.
Building a successful relationship with ourselves and with each other takes knowledge, understanding and then skills to apply that knowledge.
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