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Stephen Hedger

Crisis Marriage Coach | Harley Street London

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“I can’t see a way forward – I want a divorce!”

Less than 3 months ago I told my husband of nearly 10 years that I wanted a divorce. This wasn’t a sudden decision I had been unhappy and unfulfilled in my marriage for a very long time and I couldn’t see any way forward. I certainly couldn’t imagine “celebrating” our 10-year anniversary in 4 months from then.

This wasn’t the first time I’d brought this up but this time I was adamant that we had come to the end of the road, it was a very painful conversation. My husband didn’t accept it – at all.

We agreed to seek help.

Neither of us had any faith in traditional marriage counselling, both having experienced it in previous marriages. But being a “veteran” coach myself I DO have great belief in the power of highly experienced coaching as a means to moving through major challenges and creating transformation – I’ve seen it time and again with my own clients.

My research found Stephen Hedger. After individual phone calls, my husband and I jointly decided to invest and start working with Stephen.

That was at the beginning of February and it is now mid-April. I never, ever, expected to be able to say “Stephen has transformed our marriage” after such a short period of time, but it is true.

We love and understand each other (my husband and I that is!) better than ever and I can’t imagine us splitting up. We are relaxed, playful, interested, loving and affectionate and my health and wellbeing have improved dramatically – I’d almost say I’ve never felt better.

I know we’ll have challenges along the way, life is a winding road, but it now feels that we have the tools, foundation and desire to resolve them together, we feel like a team again not two rather distant housemates.

Speaking professionally I am extremely impressed by Stephen’s approach – a combination of working with each of us individually and together – which proved vital for the transformation.

Obviously I knew some of the exercises we did but a coach cannot coach herself (or her husband) any more than a surgeon can operate on herself – yes we can do exercises alone, self-reflection, all sorts of things but Stephen’s professional – experienced, knowledgeable and caring – external guidance is what has brought us together and even lead me to wonder if we might renew our vows!

Who would have thought it… not me for sure or my closest friends or family I suspect.

I cannot recommend Stephen highly enough.

Karen Kennaby

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About Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger is known as the most sought after marriage in crisis specialist in the UK. He is famous for consistently and naturally saving many marriages from divorce. He is a favourite of business leaders, business owners, Judges and celebrities.

Stephen runs his meetings from his office in Harley Street London and supports his global clients over Zoom.

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In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

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Success Stories

“It was like walking through a minefield blindfolded”

November 29, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

When relationships go wrong the pain can be unbelievable. Today’s post is about a couple whose relationship was quickly out of control and both people thought it was the end. When I first agreed to meet this couple she arrived first.  She was clearly very anxious, eyes darting, wringing hands, unsure if her husband would […]

One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”

May 10, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time? What is it that helps couples make it through all the ups and downs life has to throw at them? Is sex at the core for a […]

Please Save Our Marriage! – Testimonial

March 1, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

Please Save Our Marriage! This was the first email I recieved from Darren and Sue, they were at breaking point. When they first entered my clinic you could cut the atmosphere with a knife. This was a couple with young children on the edge, breaking up seemed like the only option open to them… Sue […]

“He thought his life was over..!”

March 1, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is a little different. I wanted to share with you a clients words about his experience of the pain of his divorce and the process of rebuilding him and his future. Over to him… The words hit me like a hammer ~ “There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken, you never were. […]

“His emotions were sabotaging what he really wanted…”

November 3, 2019 By Stephen Hedger

What you are about to read is about is a gentleman in turmoil. He thought he had lost the girl he loved and his one-year-old son. She had left him and this connected him to his core fears, emotions that were powerful enough to sabotage him from getting the very thing he wanted. As his […]

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  • She nearly divorced him for the wrong reason
  • All Roads Lead to Rome – “It’s Always About Me”!
  • Unhealthy conflict couples suffer the most…

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