What is going on in your relationship without you knowing?
Des wrote to me because his relationship was over and he was heart-broken (check out his story here). Des did not know that from his perspective and the beliefs he had for how relationships work, that he was destroying his relationship without knowingâ€¦ The reverse of what he wantedâ€¦
Des is not aloneâ€¦ this could be happening to you everydayâ€¦
Men and women across the country are just like Des. Without knowing they have created a perspective and beliefs and rules for how relationships work, and they drop this untested system on their relationships.
Itâ€™s not long before problems are brewing and arguments start.
Des is not at fault for his lack of understanding of how relationships work, because who in our education system teaches us? NO-ONE!â€¦
But Des has paid the ultimate price and his little boy now is without a father
Most people are blind to the understanding that they DONâ€˜T KNOW, WHAT THEY DONâ€˜T KNOW, and with relationships this is pretty much everyone.
Desâ€™s partner ended the relationship based on a truth from her perspective. Truths from this place are not facts and so the relationship ended for the wrong reasons.
PLEASE donâ€™t assume you know whatâ€™s right for your relationship, please find out THE TRUTH, BEFORE THE WRONG TRUTH COMES OUT TO BITE YOU.
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