Is your relationship growing or dying? Are your needs being met in the way you want?
Of course growing would only happen through the love of wanting to understand each others needs and understand why you are stronger together than apart. Why does your future look more exciting with your partner than on your own? Maybe it doesn’t!
The focus has to be on the pleasure of an exciting life together, if what came up for you were fears, dread or that no future could be seen then maybe it’s time to explore your relationship.
At the bottom of this post there is a quick test you can ask yourself to explore what’s happening for you.
The most critical part of any relationship is to be able to grow through conflict. Conflict is an inevitable part of a couple living together. In many ways conflict is not all bad because the energy displays a passion in the couple.
Couples that don’t argue could find themselves in a calm, but passionless existence due to the lack of energy.
So each time you fight do you grow closer, or do you die a little?
Relationships don’t die overnight it takes constant practice over time to be successful at destroying what couples say they both love.
Truth is most people have no idea how to grow through conflict and why should they. Growing through their problems can be a real hit and miss affair.
Through your conflict do you feel more love, do you feel each time you argue there is a deeper understanding and connection. Do you feel that you are closer and trust in each other more to create a secure and exciting life for each other, is this you?
If not how would you describe your relationship and what would have to change for you to be happy.
Can you answer these questions? Match your answers to what you currently experience and find out if there is a gap. Are you getting what you really need?
- What has to happen for you to experience love in your relationship in the way you want it?
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