If your marriage is in crisis this means that one of you is starting to give up because they feel they have enough proof the relationship is wrong for them.
The crisis is usually caused by one person saying they have had enough and they are thinking of leaving because they are so unhappy.
This can sound pretty final. If you want to save your marriage, there are very easy and very powerful steps you can take to find out if you are really compatible.
A couple attended my session a few days ago they came in because after years of feeling wrong they considered splitting up, but had decided at the last minute to give it another go and seek help.
After their first session they told me that they had never considered much of what they learnt that day and now they could see why they were in so much trouble.
Effectively they had no idea how to grow their marriage into one that would work for them.
Many couples that come for help feel the same way and why would they know? There are no schools for marriage building skills leading to lasting intimacy. So of course any couple without this key knowledge will be in trouble.
You see part of the fears in a marriage is not knowing what to do when things go wrong and unless you know how to be successful with each other, things will go wrong a lot.
The dynamic between you has to be right to be successful and unless you know how to understand your specific dynamic your going to be guessing and your marriage will descend into crisis.
Creating a marriage that’s lasting and passionate is easy, but you have to know what to do to. It’s simply a learning skills and new understanding exercise. If you have the ability to learn and a passion for understanding relationships then you can do it.