What I’m going to explore today is a principal that many successful people use to gain fast results in relationships, wealth, health and all aspects of life that are important to them.
One of the core principals of gaining success is called modelling. Modelling is the fastest way to become successful in any part of your life.
The principal is simple, find someone that has the results you want, model what they did and learn how to apply their steps to your life.
- If a poor man was offering financial advice would you trust it?
- If an unhappily married woman was offering relationship advice would you follow it?
- If an obese man was offering diet advice would you follow it?
I’m sure the answer for most people would be no to all the above and following their advice is likely to provide questionable results.
So if you are going to get relationship advice from a professional wouldn’t it be prudent to discover the teachers congruency with what they teach.
Do they follow what they teach in their own relationship and do they have the results you want?
One of the reasons the work I do is so successful is because I genuinely practice what I teach and my marriage to Cloe is testament to that. Our relationship is passionate and alive and is growing better and better as we live our dream together. Our result is the reverse of the national trend.
Too many couples are learning and being lead by those professionals that don’t have good results personally themselves.
Shockingly this week I must have spoken to 10 couples who do not have the result they wanted from their chosen professional help after months of commitment and not one couple asked the help about the state of their own relationship, or in their proven ability to get them the results they wanted, before they started.
Please spend your time wisely all help is not equal.