Here’s how: Most people think that to save a relationship it has to take two people to work at it and it’s impossible to be successful alone. This is not true because if one person changes their own behaviour in a very specific way their partner will automatically react to that change without realising.
You see we are all conditioned to live in reaction to the world we live in so making changes will create automatic change.
An example: When a person reacts with anger to a situation they don’t like in their relationship this will create an automatic reaction in their partner, usually something like retaliation, defence or escape type behaviours. The result in this situation is no growth, loss of trust and bad attachment to their partner. So not good at all, especially if becomes a habit.
If they change from an automatic anger response and choose to move to learn and understand their partners behaviour, their partner in reaction will automatically respond differently without realising. This then changes the outcome of that interaction and avoids the attached destructive feelings and builds trust through learning and listening and grows the relationship.
This of course is one example, to be successful you need to stack these new understandings and apply them.
So imagine this: If you could understand your partner differently and learn how to translate what’s really going on for them. In other words if you could understand what your partner really needs and be there for them in the way they want.
The chances of them reacting differently is really high, especially if you are consistent.
Now if you were able to do this, whilst meeting you own critical needs the whole vibe in a relationship can change dramatically and quickly.
This process works for male or female.
So if you have been requesting your partner comes for help for a while without success, it is totally possible for you to take the first step and be successful.
You maybe concerned you’re not compatible and want to find out if that’s true, now’s your chance.
Too many people remain stuck and there is so much that can be learnt and applied. So please don’t wait until divorce is the only option, take control and get answers, call today!
My wonderful wife Cloé will be at the end of the phone to support you.