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What makes a good partner? – Mini post

The basics of being a good partner – The essence of a good relationship partner/spouse is someone who wants to contribute in a meaningful way to their partner.

They are part of supporting their partners’ emotional growth.

They are someone who wants to learn who their partner is so they can support them in the way they need.

A good partner cares about how their partner feels without judgement.

A good partner will put their partner first.

This is important so they feel safe and loved no matter what.

This way they can help them grow and evolve so they feel and remain connected to who they really are.

Many people lose connection to who they are in their marriage with so many hats to wear, helping your partner keep their core identity alive is such an important role.

This is why when someone doesn’t feel emotionally connected or is emotionally challenged, stressed or ill, a good partner is there to see they are struggling and will help them rather than judge them.

A good partner will know when their partner is not being themselves and will be there for them.

A good partner will embrace honesty and love unconditionally.

A good partner will be responsible for their own emotional health and happiness and give from this space because it’s who they are not for what they want back.

Many think you have to give love to get love and this will always be an ineffective trade that causes more problems.

A good partner takes 100% responsibility for their relationship because they are a good team member.

In contrast many people run a 50/50 relationship model which is full of judgement, blame and resentment so are never a good team.

A good partner will always work towards making life better and being part of the solution.

A good partner will help the person they say they love to become more of who they really are.

A good partner will help their partner to love how they feel about themselves when they are together.

A good partner will forgive and find a way to make amends when things go wrong.

These are just a few of the basic qualities good partners need to practice if they want next-level relationships.

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Stephen Hedger
Stephen Hedger
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Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach

With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.

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  • What If You Knew the Exact Mistakes That Destroy Marriages? - July 8, 2025
  • “What Do You Hear When I Speak?” - July 5, 2025
  • Your Marriage Isn’t Broken — The Pattern Is. Here’s How to Fix It. - July 2, 2025

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A 30 minute call with Stephen

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

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Success Stories

From Battlefield to Breakthrough: How to Save Your Marriage Without a Toxic Fight.

January 31, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Most people who come to me for help believe their marriage is broken, so their level of hope is not high. Many will have tried to fix the problems without success. These people are unaware that there is a critical mindset shift: if you don’t make it, your chances of success dramatically drop. As you […]

“By changing yourself, you can change a relationship… because I did!”

September 16, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

We were in the process of physical separation, with my husband arranging to move out at the end of the month, and I was getting legal advice on proceeding with the divorce.  On one of those distressed and sleepless nights, I came across Stephen’s website and his blog. I was fascinated. What Stephen has written […]

“There’s no hope in hell – I want a divorce!”

April 22, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

So what do you do when the trust is broken so badly that their relationship ends with them selling their family home and moving into separate homes? Most people would consider this the end, but this gentleman decided something different. He wrote to me to see if I could help. I wanted to encourage his […]

Marriage Crisis from Infidelity & Communication Breakdown

August 21, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is about a professional couple in the UK who decided they wanted to share their experience of their tailormade program that was designed to help them out of their marital challenges. They were in crisis due to communication breakdown and infidelity. They had 12 meetings over five months to learn how to reconnect […]

His Marriage was Over!

June 5, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

This man was in the depths of sadness; his marriage was over, but he didn’t want it to be. They had seen numerous counsellors who had all concluded the marriage was indeed over. He had lost all feelings for his wife. Due to being so stuck for so long, he had started an affair. But […]

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