Do you want her to really feel your love?

To all men, if you really want her to connect with you it’s so important to understand this little know fact. For a woman the connection through her eyes creates a powerful emotional energy that allows her to connect deeply with him. 

When he can look into her eyes and be there for her through all her emotions, only then can he really connect with her in the way she wants. His eye contact can trigger within her a true vulnerability that can allow her to be fully open to him emotionally and sexually.

You see through his eye contact she can see the truth in him for her, she can feel safe, secure and loved, but there is another side to this as you will discover…

So many couples who have disconnected come into my session and can’t remember the last time they actually looked into each others eyes.

This has not been good news for these couples as this is one of the causes of their disconnection.

Many women are not aware that for him it is not emotionally important to connect this way, but for her it is critical. You see it’s a fundamental way she builds trust and a close connection. If she thinks he needs that connection in the same way as her she can worry about his intent.

I will repeat that for the women reading this, for men, eye contact does not lead them to emotional connection, in fact for men eye contact equals potentially leads him to conflict. So you can see the confusion and where it can lead a couple who don’t know.

To all men,  do not ignore this message, because she needs your presence through your eye contact to connect with you.

In fact a disconnected woman in a relationship will actually resist looking into her partners eyes because it creates too much pain and discomfort for her emotionally.

If a man notices she has no desire to connect with him through her eyes it means somewhere the trust is broken and she is protecting herself from him, or the relationship.

Men you all have a very powerful energy within you for her, yet very few know how to connect with it for her. I have used this process to reconnect couples within just one session.

This is not well known, or understood, but it is powerful and one of the few keys needed to unlocking her true feelings which is what’s needed to gain a deep passionate connection…



About Stephen Hedger

International relationship expert Stephen Hedger's philosophy on relationship problems is this: Couples fail to understand their relationships because they are too focused on their problems and so they totally miss what created them. Stephen's approach is a refreshing and enlightening journey that helps couples uncover their truth. His strategies uncover the knowledge that all couples need to create a successful and lasting passionate connection. If you are in crisis and you need help, book an initial consultation today to get your life back on track.